Everyday Self Help & Self Care Tips and Tricks to Guide US Back To Optimal Health and Happiness.

The Purpose of Life.

Have you ever asked yourself what is the purpose of life? What will make you the happiest? Who’s life will be touched besides your own?

At A Glance, scroll through the slideshow below. 7 main Chakras and their Healing and Balancing Crystals/Stones. Each stone has it’s own energy and benefits, that’s why there is more than one for each Chakra.

Any questions let me know. ~Rebecca

Chakra Grid with Crystals

Chakra grid. You would want to use this grid for healing and balancing your chakras.

Use a seed of life pattern.

Use chakra color related stones for this grid, every grid and stones may differ, in picture I used, Amethyst (crown chakra), Blue Aventurine (third-eye chakra), Lapis Lazuli (throat chakra), Green Aventurine (heart chakra), Yellow Aventurine (solar plexus), Peach Aventurine (sacral chakra) & Red Jasper (root chakra).

Have a Center stone such as amethyst or rose quartz.

The Clear quartz between each chakra stone pointing outwards from the center stone to direct the energy.

Put your name and intention on a piece of paper and under the Center Stone. (Personally I request/intention that all my chakras be attuned and balance and to remove any excess energy that does not serve my greater good. May it bring me to my Optimal Health and a great life of abundance in prosperity, wealth, love and happiness.)

Placing the patterns on a mirror reflects back the light and the colors, it is said to magnify the energy, but if you do not have a mirror it’s still works.

The stones on the grid are as follows and their benefits. You can vary the stones/crystals the you use for this grid that suits you and your needs. I used these in particular because they also had the Chakra symbol on them so it was easy to identify. Just like every person, grids are going to be different, unique and make it personal to your need. Need any help just contact me.

• Amethyst (Crown Chakra): has healing powers to help with physical ailments, emotional issues, and in Energy Healing and Chakra balancing.

• Blue Aventurine (Third-eye Chakra): As a stone of truth, Blue Aventurine mineral stones improves Communications and The calming effect facilitates logical thinking.

• Lapis Lazuli (Throat Chakra): Encourages self-awareness, allows self-expression and reveals inner truth, providing qualities of honesty, compassion and morality to the personality. Stimulates objectivity, clarity and encourages creativity.

• Green Aventurine (Heart Chakra): is known as the good luck stone and is often used in rituals or kept in cash boxes or drawers to attract money. Green Aventurine is recommended for working through unresolved emotional issues.

• Yellow Aventurine (Solar Plexus): It is considered to promote emotional stability, balance, loving relationships, luck, wisdom, protection and a long life. I also use Tigers Eye for this Chakra.

• Peach Aventurine (Sacral Chakra): A stabilizing stone, restores vitality and motivation, and stimulates creativity, gives courage, promotes positive life choices, dispels apathy and motivates for success. I also use Carnelian for this Chakra.

• Red Jasper (Root Chakra): A stone of physical strength and energy, Red Jasper stimulates gently and steadily, enhancing stamina and endurance, and increasing the amount of chi, or life force.

Thanks for stopping by. If you need more information, just let me know. ❤️Rebecca

My New Favorite Crystal!!!!! It reminds me of the beach when I can’t get there, the waters mixed with sand all in one crystal ❤😍
Aquatine
My crystal came from the mines of Argentina. Deeply nourishing to our emotional body, strengthening emotional intelligence with soft, yet powerful resolve. Invokes the flowing wisdom of water, ease in the heart mind, opening us up a two more expensive ways of knowing including from Spirit guides, Angelic and buddies, supportive ancestors. Intuition, dreaming, empathy with good boundaries. Let this friend hold you as you hold it. ❤ Ways to use it, can be in your pocket, worn as jewelry, held in hand while relaxing, placed on body during meditation, put next to your water glass to absorb it’s energy(not in glass) ,the possibilities are endless. Need more ideas or information, just contact me. Love and Light and Everything Bright ~Rebecca

Remember that this is not to be used in replacement to Professional Medical Care but to truly compliment.

4th Chakra, Heart Chakra

Purpose/Qualities: Balancing point for all the chakras. Represents love, compassion, joy, inner peace, higher consciousness and spirituality. Governs our relationships and how we communicate and interact with others.

Locations: Heart region. Near the center of the breastbone or sternum in the front and on back is located between the shoulder blades.

Physical: Blood andHeart related disorders. Disorders of the breasts, lungs, thymus, and middle back tightness. Respiratory Problems. Shortness of Breathe/asthma. Auto immune disease and immune system deficiency. Shoulder, arm and hand conditions.

Color: Green, Pink

Element: Air

Sound: F  /Ah, YAM
Balanced Energy:
Allows one to lovedeeply, wholeheartedly, compassionate, empathy, peace, serenity, kindness, friendliness, allows one to see the good in people.

Unbalanced Energy: Shy, fear of getting hurt by others. Feeling of unloved, unable to love others. Lacks compassion and honesty. Feeling unworthy of love. Keeping the heart at a distance.
Color therapy:
Connect with nature. Forest Therapy, enjoying the trees and all greenery. Laying in the grass and barefoot grass time. Wear green clothes, scarves.  

Verbs: I Love
7 Affirmations:
I give and open to receive love effortlessly and unconditionally. Everything I do, I do with love. My heart is healing and heathy. I let go of resentments and don’t hold onto grudges. I forgive others and ask for forgiveness. I forgive myself (and my parents). I accept things the way they are.

Crystals/ Stones: Green Aventurine (most common). Rose Quartz (2nd common), Pink/Red Aventurine, Unakite, Amazonite, Chrysocolla, Emerald, Rhodonite, Malachite, Strawberry Quartz. Ask me how to use the crystals or keep watching this blog for information.
Essential Oil:
Rose, Peppermint, Melaleuca, Ylang Ylang, Helichrysum, Geranium, Eucalyptus, Calming Blend
Flower Essence:
Rose, Geranium

Food: Green Leafy Vegetables such as spinach, kale, dandelion greens, sprouts etc. Broccoli, cauliflower, cabbage, celery, parsley, cilantro etc. Drinking green teas have also shown benefits.

Beneficial Healing Modalities: Yoga, Aromatherapy, Deep breathing meditations, Guided Walking Tours/Meditations, Hand mudras and massages. Healing Touch Therapies, Reiki, Crystal Reiki. Cardio strengthen activities. Acupuncture, EFT.

You are LOVED and thank you for visiting my Blog. May your day be blessed with endless love and light and everything bright. Rebecca

*Remember to always consult you Healthcare Provider if you are having any blood, heart and lung conditions. This is not to be meant in place of professional health care

I’m offering Long Distance Reiki. To get more information, read below.

Long Distance Reiki has exactly the same effect as an in person Reiki treatment. Reiki energy is form of Quantum Healing, so it is not limited to time or space and can easily be transmitted anywhere that it is needed and can also be sent to the future, and to future events if needed (pregnancy/birth, during an exam, interviews and medical procedures/surgeries, etc).

How Long Distance Reiki Sessions Work: We will arrange a time(time zone permitted) when you’re in a quiet place and able to relax for the session. I will conduct the Reiki session from my home in California while you’re relaxing in the comfort of your own home, wherever that may be. All you have to do is relax, acknowledge that Reiki will be sent and that you are open to receiving it and tune into the energy. You will receive the energy just as if I was there with you. It is best to schedule the session for when you’re at home. You may feel drowsy during the session. Also, if you schedule the session when you’re doing something else, you won’t be able to focus on yourself or the Reiki energy. Although the Reiki will still be sent at the time, you just want to give yourself the time to receive it fully.

It is highly suggested that you drink plenty of water before and after the session, to help with energy flow. To enhance the healing even more, you just need to relax, be in a comfortable position, breathe, light a candle or incense, pour a cup of tea, hold your favorite crystal and play relaxing music.

Benefits of Distance Reiki:

*You will receive the same benefits as if you came to an in person Reiki session.

*You do not have to sit in traffic, commute long hours or leave your home.

*If you are looking for energetic healing while preparing for or undergoing surgery or treatment.

*You work long hours and find it difficult to squeeze in an in person session.

*Pricing for a Long Distance Reiki session is lower than in person,if money is a concern.

Personally I try to go through a list of people and requests for Long Distance Reiki on Wednesdays & Fridays evenings, but that doesn’t always work for everyone, so if you have a better time, let me know. I will need your full name and your birthday, would be helpful for Numerology & Astrology references. Any names of others that you want Reiki sent too or for, and if any pets need. Also list any requests, illness, disease or specific needs for me to focus on when sending Reiki.

*You can think of Long Distance Reiki as a prayer someone is sending to you. This prayer can help you clear your mind, reduce anxiety, PTSD, grief, depression and physical pain, help you to feel more balanced mentally & emotionally and even help you sleep better. Studies have shown it can boost your immune system, lower blood pressure, relieve stress, balance hormones and help during pregnancy and birth. Today Cancer patient are using Reiki alongside their medical treatments.

The body works like nature. If it’s nourished and balanced, it will do what it naturally needs to do, or is programmed to do to achieve and keep optimal health. Long Distance Reiki also helps in directing energy toward specific goals, or simply working on one’s self-development.

* If you want more information on Reiki, Long Distance Reiki or the other Services that I offer, just let me know.

Love & Light and Everything Bright! ❤️Rebecca

Quick reminder that Reiki is not to replace any Professional Medical Help but to work alongside treatments. Don’t stop help or medications without your physician approval.

Starting the Chakra Healing and Balancing Series. I will share all my knowledge on each Chakra. Today is the 1st Chakra which is actually the Red one on the bottom half and work our way up. Enjoy!

1st Chakra, Base/ Root Chakra

Purpose/Qualities: Basic needs for Survival. Security. Safety. Stability. Will Power. Grounding. Motivation and Intent.

Locations: at the base of the spine and the groin area.

Physical: Lower back/Sciatica pains. Constipation/ Diarrhea/ IBS. Rectal/anal issues. Leg vein/varicose issues hips, groin, ankles and knee issues. Adrenal glandes.

Color: Red

Element: Earth

Sound: C/ Oohm
Balanced Energy:
Abundant energy and good health. Feeling grounded and settled, comfortable with own body, a healthy desire for basic requirements, such as warmth, food and shelter, feeling a sense of security, stability.

Unbalanced Energy: Neglecting self, over/under weight. Eating disorders. Poor boundaries and lack discipline. Not feeling like one belongs, disorganizing, addicted to adrenaline activities. One might start feeling afraid of life, withdraw from physical reality, feel victimized, operate in a highly selfish mode or be prone to violence.
Color therapy:
Shades of Red clothes. Coloring/drawing with red. Red colored glasses. Red sand or clay play.

Verbs: I Have. I Am.
7 Affirmations:
I am WORTHY! I feel deeply rooted. I am a divine being of love and light. I am peaceful. I am protected and secure. I am open to possibilities. I am connected to my body.


Crystals/ Stones:
Red Jasper(most common). Blood Stone, Garnet, Ruby, Aventurine Red/Pink. Botswana Agate, Hematite, Ruby Fuchite, Petrified Wood, Emerald, Coral, Tourmaline. Meditate holding Carnelian for a calming effect on the Chakra. If you want ideas on how to use the Crystals/Stones, send me a message or keep watching this blog.


Essential Oil:
Basil, Cedarwood, Myrrh, Patchouli, Grounding Blend
Flower Essence:
Clematis, Rosemary

Food: Root Vegetables: Carrots, potatoes, parsnips, beets, radishes, garlic, other ground growing veggies. Protein rich foods: Eggs, meats, beans, tofu, peanut butter.
Beneficial Healing Modalities:
Yoga, meditations, walking, hand mudras and massages.

*COMING SOON, Chakra Meditation video, keep a look out.

*note* this information has been gathered through my personal experience and knowledge gathered through the many diploma courses, and certificates that I have earned along the years. This information is by no means an end all list, do your research!!! Don’t do anything without consulting your physician first.

❤️Rebecca

Make a Wish

Go ahead and make a virtual wish on this dandelion. Sometimes the Universe doesn’t hear our exact wish the way we intended it.

I remember blowing a dandelion and making a wish, but then in my mind I would say, it probably wouldn’t come true anyway ,but it was worth a try. I just now had the realization that I was doubting my wish even before it took to the wind. Have you ever done that? Had a dream or wish but condemned it before it even had time to come to life?

There is this thought that if one’s vibration doesn’t match the wish or dream it probably won’t come to realization. If we adjust our vibrations to match what we dream that it would become our reality. If we condemn the wish or dream, we sabotage the vibration match and it will not come or happen. I wondered how I could come to the same vibrations as my wishes and dreams, then I remembered hearing someone say that if we imagine that we already have it then work backwards from there. Truly imagining being blessed with the wishes/dream and how it would feel and how my situations would look different. I started writing down how my wish/dream being true would impact my life. I tried to imagine and feel all the differences it would bring. That my friend, changes our vibrations to match our wishes and dreams! Get in the moment of having it already and watch it really unfold in reality. If you don’t believe me than try it. Change your vibrations, change your results, change your life!!!!!

May your wishes and dreams come true. ❤Rebecca

Made in PicsArt app for FREE.

I did a tutorial on making Positive Affirmations wallpaper for your screened devices using a Free app called PicsArt. I placed the video on my YouTube channel because my WordPress storage is almost full. Click the link below and it will zoom you on over there. The guided tutorial will literally walk you step by step. If you have any questions at all just comment below and I will get back to you ASAP. I wish you the absolute best and see you back here soon

Here’s the tutorial link to my page on YouTube.

More wallpaper ideas, get creative and have fun❤️Rebecca

I always hear people saying they are just trying to get through it. I think if we spend more time trying to figure out how we can grow through it, Life would be more fulfilling. We have to be here so we might as well make it worth it right? If you think about what you have to learn while you’re here , let’s try to have some fun. They say that we are either the teacher or the student in different situations. Well at this time I feel like I’m here to learn everything I can and recycle that information and teacher to everyone else around me. So what I have learned thus far is that I don’t want to just go through life I want to grow through this life and while I’m here I’m going to make it worth it. I hope that you join me. I started doing videos on YouTube starting October 1 and I hope that you get a chance to go check it out. The name is under “Rebecca 4SelfHelp”. If you learn anything from me don’t forget to recycle that information and share it with your friends. Have a great day ❤️Rebecca

https://youtu.be/cjFb_1GM5C8 Go check out the video to my secrets to a great smile. ENJOY!!!!!

Just Be Your Weird Self…

Let’s just face it, people are going to judge you no matter what, so let’s give them something weird to judge. LOL!😁

I know that I could be really weird, different than most are used too. I try to be sparkly, silly, funny and use humor to deal with a lot of things. Sometimes it makes people want to be near me or others to stay clear of me. I tried not to laugh when I typed that last sentence out, but it’s true. I believe in different things than others, I have habits or practices that might be different than others. I handle situations much different than most, I try to take the most holistic or organic way first, which may seem odd to some. There can’t be just one way to do something and I like to be the one who can find another way. Some say unique, special or weird when they refer to others doing something different than they are doing it. What is your take on being weird?

As always I like to share my personal story in hopes that you can relate, or see it from another perspective than your own. I may have spent almost my whole entire life trying to fit in, trying to make others like me, make others happy, and the only person who was ever happy was definitely not me. How many of us go through life trying to be something or someone we are not just to make others happy?

Now that I’m older (and my Mom has passed). I am free to just be me, no parental pressure or so I thought I had. The only person I’m trying to make happy is myself. I’m not trying to be selfish, I’m trying to be authentic. I do care what others think, I am still human. When finding the balance between being your weird true self and trying to be different for others, you will find that a huge conflict will happen in the mind, body and even in the spirit. Personally I just end up being more socially awkward than usual and it doesn’t feel good inside either. That probably sounded weird but it is a real thing. Maybe ask yourself if ever you were trying to be “cool” in front of your boss or trying to impress a date and you just ended up looking “un cool”. If you can’t relate to that scenario, just recall it in a movie, sadly my movie selection contains mostly all those moments. If we try to be as authentic as we can be, life is just easier. I’m trying to be as real as I can be, striving to be the best person that I can be for myself, my children, family and also my friends. Sometimes it’s easier said than done, but it gives us something to look forward to every day. To be better than we were yesterday. To be weirder than you were the day before, haha just kidding. I have found in my 40+ years of life that the people who truly value you will always be there for you. It’s like finding your own tribe. If you are true and real for yourself, you can’t go wrong. When all is said and done you are by yourself, for yourself, with yourself, to love yourself. To love yourself may sometimes be challenging but as we strive everyday to be better, let’s also be kind to ourselves.

Now I may have gotten a little off, so let’s get back to “weird”.

According to https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/weird

Getting back to topic, “just be your weird self”. I looked up the definition and to my surprise each web/dictionary had a similar yet different meaning but I thought I’d use this one above. The definition in itself is weird. Now I’m all about being “magical” you will see that in other upcoming articles for sure. The word “Strange” did seem a bit judging much (judgmental). So I didn’t want to touch that much. Now moving right along to “Extraordinary” character, makes me want to look this definition up but I am just going to say it’s definition is , beyond the normal or expected, different, special, exceptional and not the usual. The word extraordinary only feels so extra when said a certain way.. try it. Fun right? Say it like a princess/prince. “I am Extraordinary and Fabulous!” ….weird right hahaha. Well hey now, I’m totally an extraordinary character. I can take it next level as usual, it says odd and fantastic next in the definition meaning. Honestly I think every human has a time in their life that they can claim that they were odd or fantastic, I know I can. If we can find ways to be fantastic or odd together it might bring some extra laughter and good times into our life. We deserve to be happy, loved and accepted no matter how weird we are. When the word weird starts meaning something more positive and powerful then more people will join our tribe. Accept each other’s weird and embrace your own weird. There is only one you, be the best version of you that you can be.

I strive to be someone fantastic, someone extraordinary and yet a bit odd. I will embrace my weird and embrace the weird in you. I will be as magical as I can be and sometimes even a little strange. I am weird . Life is weird, so let’s all just be weird together. Rebecca❤️W. E. I. R. D…. witty, entertaining, interesting, radiant, determined!

**My Sincere Goals.
I want to assist and guide others in discovering their unique path to happiness, wellness, wholeness, and truly embracing their authenticity. I want to introduce and teach about Holistic Healing Modalities and it’s importance to Self Help, Self Care and Healing. Infusing the benefits of Reiki into all of the information and resources shared.❤Rebecca